The Debaillons: Ailene + James

March 10, 2014  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments

I’m so excited to blog the Debaillon wedding! Ailene was one of the first brides I booked after buying Southern Fete. Having gone to high school together with Ailene and James, I knew from the beginning it was going to be such a fun ride.

When asked by a vendor to choose three words to describe their wedding, Ailene said “simple, elegant, and fun.” It certainly met these and many more.

Y’all…the church. There are no words for how beautiful the Cathedral is every day of the year but especially during the Christmas season. The picture below is by far my favorite from the wedding! And can we talk about the back of Ailene’s dress? Her custom Heidi Elnora gown from I Do in Baton Rouge was beyond gorgeous.



Crystal Weddings did a fabulous job on Ailene’s four tier combed butter cream cake, and the groom’s cake. There was a mad dash at one point to get a piece of each for Ailene and James before it was completely gone.


One of the main flowers used was the hydrangea. I love this picture and how it captures the elegance and simplicity that Ailene wanted for her wedding. As usual, Flowers by Rodney did not disappoint.



I was so excited for one of my brides to choose Val Marie Paper for her invitations. Ailene chose to customize the Ruby suite, and it was beyond beautiful. Katherine Holly created the below monogram for Ailene and James that they used for their programs, koozies, bar cups, and more!


Last, but not least, the ballroom. Cristina with Event Rentals helped to create the most amazing chandelier drape over the dance floor. I’m not sure if it was Krossfyre or the beautiful Maria Therese chandelier that got people to the dance floor, but does it really matter? 🙂


There were so many gorgeous pictures that it was hard to choose which ones to use. Their wedding video is also coming soon, so I’ll be sure to circle back once it’s complete!

Ailene and James’ day would have not been what it was without these amazing vendors who made my job a piece of cake!


Photographer: Jay Faugot

Ceremony: St. John’s Cathedral

Reception: Hilton Lafayette

Wedding and Groom’s Cake: Crystal Weddings

Music: Krossfyre

Flowers: Flowers by Rodney

Invitations + Programs: Val Marie Paper

Monogram: Katherine Holly

Transportation: Party Time Trolley and Esquire Limo

Videographer: Carriage Films


Southern Fete :: Things I Have Learned

February 25, 2014  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments


February 9 marked Southern Fete’s birthday. Thinking back, I couldn’t believe how quickly the year had passed. After inviting a group of vendors over to the Thibeaux house for a “Birthday Brunch,” I thought about all of the things I had learned over the past year. Some quirky, some funny, and some introspective. Regardless, I thought I’d share them with you.

  • Candles – There’s nothing better than the perfect candle to welcome new clients into the office and inspire creativity. So, imagine my fear when I found out that the two candles that had been with me the past year were no longer made. Sheer. Panic. But then I realized it was a sign to start this year fresh, with two new candles in tow.
  • Gold Foil – How did I not know before this past year that I love anything and everything with gold foil? One day friends, one day Southern Fete materials will be printed in gold foil.
  • Mistaken Identity – I’ve learned that there are a lot of people who don’t speak French; people who have never heard of the word “Fete.” Unknowingly, they call my business “Southern Feet” to which I cringe, but in the way only the most Southern Belle would do, I explain that Fete is French for party. 🙂
  • Confidence – Oh, the times doubt has crept into my mind. Double that and you have the times my competitive side reared its head. This past year has undoubtedly shown me that to be a successful business owner, there’s no time for doubt. It has also taught me that there’s more value in strategic partnerships (I haven’t left all of my past behind) rather than pure competitiveness. Perhaps the biggest lesson learned is that business is business. I’ve learned to not take things personally. This has been one of the biggest challenges. I came across this quote and have kept it close by when I needed the reminder. “Don’t take things personally. Most of the time, other people’s choices and attitudes have absolutely nothing to do with you. Unless you’ve been behaving like a jerk, in which case …”
  • Hugs – Those of you who know me know I’m not a hugger. But, brides like hugs. Mothers of the brides and grooms like hugs. Grandma Jo likes a hug. Everyone likes hugs … or so it seems. In the beginning, I told myself to suppress any visible sign of how much I didn’t like hugs. It was a start, but a hug tells all. Just like a handshake. I realized at the last event that I may have even initiated a hug or two. It’s a work in progress. 🙂

There’s more. There always is, but these are the highlights.

The Southern Fete family is growing, and I couldn’t be more excited. I’ll do my best not to jump to conclusions about next year’s lessons learned. Until then, hugs for everyone!


The Legendres: Ellie + Mitch

February 21, 2014  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments

Where to start?

When Ellie contacted me to assist with her wedding, I was thrilled. Ellie’s dad, Mr. Keefe, was my freshman religion teacher in high school, who was intimidating with his whiteboards filled with religious stick figures and green pen (which marked green weenies – things you definitely didn’t want) but was lovable at the same time. After having a moment of nostalgia, I was elated to be a part of this big day.

As an art teacher herself, Ellie knew exactly what she wanted her day to look like and worked with friends and family on DIY’s for a majority of the wedding and reception. I’ll never know how she found the time to get it all done (i.e. stain wooden table centerpieces, dip dye tablecloths, sketch her dress, make a chalkboard bar sign, wrap yarn around a collection of bottles for the table centerpieces, create a Star Wars themed DIY photo booth, have her brothers hand craft a wooden bench for the church … and I’m not even including everything), but all of it came together to make a perfect representation of who they are as a couple. Mitch even ordered biodegradable plates, napkins, and utensils as well as providing the bartenders with recyclable bags for the glasses and bottles. Believe me, there was no idea left undeveloped.

I’ll let the photos do the rest of the “talking…”










Photographer: Catherine Guidry

Bridal Hangout: Buchanan Lofts

Ceremony: Our Lady of Wisdom

Reception: Jeanmard Hall

Catering: Chef Bobby + Dot

Wedding Cake: Kathleen Short

Groom’s Cake: Katie Bakes

Bride’s Hair: Genna Bradly (Be. Salon)

Music: GTO

Flowers: Rouses


The Brunos : Alex + Anthony

February 19, 2014  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments

Somehow, someway I fell off the blog wagon. But friends, I’ve found my way back.

So, I thought it would be appropriate for the first post of 2014 to be about one of our 2014 weddings.

When I first met with Alex, I could tell right off that she knew what she wanted. Her father had graciously offered his barn and property in Breaux Bridge, and I knew Alex could execute the rustic vision that she wanted. We worked together on an inspiration board that she was able to show her vendors to ensure they also got her rustic vision. Down to the littlest detail, Alex thought of everything!

Thank you, Alex and Anthony, for choosing Southern Fete to be a part of your big day. I’m excited to share some of my favorite images from your big day!









Ceremony and Reception: Family property

Photographer: Kent Fleming Photography

Rentals: Event Rental

Flowers: Root Floral

DJ: Good Vibrations

Bridal and Groom’s cake: Family friend

Menswear: Mary Ellen’s

Bridal and Bridesmaids’ Dresses: A’Nets

Hair & Makeup: Lauren Muller



Southern Fete :: Building a Library Shower

November 11, 2013  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments

I love books. Always have. And probably always will. So, I was more than THRILLED when I was able to choose a theme for Baby Harang’s shower. You see the sweet parents have decided to keep whether Baby Harang is a boy or girl a secret, so a build-the-library shower was perfect for not knowing (even though it’s a boy – just my prediction!)

It was a busy, busy day full of excitement and guesses about Baby Harang. I may have been so excited that I forgot to take photos, but here’s a little of what it looked like.

First, I must start off with these adorable invitations and coordinating book plates from PeraPress. The guest list was quite extensive – Baby Harang has a lot of sweet family and friends – but these ladies were so accommodating in allowing us to purchase the digital files and have them printed on our own.

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We used precious printables from The Handmade Home to create these two collages for the sign-in table and now Baby Harang’s nursery.



Baby Harang is already quite the poet! 🙂


Baby Harang’s library is already 30+ book more than it was before the shower!

Happy reading sweet baby!


Southern Fete :: Welcome to the World Baby Shower

October 15, 2013  |  Southern Fete News  |  No Comments

There’s just something so sweet about baby showers.

We were so excited to work on this one that brought Baby Kai’s nursery theme – old word and hot air balloons – to life for his baby shower. Before we get to the shower pictures – taken by the super talented Hannah Herpin Creative – here’s the inspiration board we started with.


And, here’s where we ended up!

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Instead of the traditional guest book, we had postcards that they were able to use to write a “Welcome to the World” message to baby Kai and his mom and leave in the adorable suitcase (hopefully to be incorporated in the nursery!)

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The invitation by PoppyDesignsShop (also on Etsy) could not have been more perfect! It incorporated both key elements AND had the amazing blue we wanted to pull through the decor. [Client information deleted from invitation.]


This kraft wrapping paper from Etsy was the perfect jumping off point for the decor.

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Warning: Your mouth is about to begin watering!


With a menu of Raspberry and Almond Brie, Zea’s Mediterranean Hummus, Chicken Alfredo, Mini Muffulletas and three cupcake flavors, who would want to leave this table?


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And, have I even mentioned the flowers? To. Die. For. Flowers by Rodney was fabulous to work with, as always.

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We are so excited for baby Kai to soon enter the world and thankful Southern Fete was chosen to plan this event.

I couldn’t sign off without thanking Hannah for taking these awesome photos. Not even knowing the theme, she showed up wearing a shirt with hot air balloons!!!! Coincidence? I think not. She was meant to photograph the setup. 🙂

Bon Voyage!